Combine all the oil, shea butter & beeswax to your double boiler on low to medium heat until they are melted.
Add the hydrosol. Mix well and ensure all ingredients are melted and liquid.
Take your double boiler out of the heat and place in another recipient filled with cold water. No need for ice. Make sure the water does not get inside your double boiler where the ingredients are.
Start whipping with a hand whip until you get the creamy consistency desired.It should take 2 to 5 minutes max. Once the emulsion has appeared and your ingredients turned into a liquid cream, you are done. Make sure you can see traces of the whip in the cream when you turn it around.
Add the essential oils and the grapefruit seed extract if you wish and mix well. This is optional but will help with preservation.
Pour immediately in a glass jar container such as a pumpable lotion container and use within 1 month.